What’s a Reflector Energy Type?

A Reflector is one of the 5 Energy Types in the Human Design system. There are also Manifestors, Generators, Manifesting Generators, and Projectors.

Your child’s Energy Type describes the design of their auric field and the way their energy naturally interacts with and relates to the world.

And each one comes with its own strengths, sensitivities, energetic needs, and a specific strategy — a way of moving through life that helps things flow more smoothly, with less resistance and more alignment.

If you’re not certain of your child’s Human Design Energy Type, use my free chart generator. You’ll see it in the info below the illustration.

And if you know you have a Reflector child, read on.

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Your Reflector Child

You may have already noticed there’s something special about your child. There’s a nuanced uniqueness — something you can’t quite put into words, but you know is there.

And you’re right, your Reflector child is designed differently than 99% of the population.

Reflector children are deeply sensitive, wise, adaptable, and attuned to their surroundings.

And their magic is expressed through their fluidity. With so much openness in their chart, they take in the world around them, and this external energy shapes their experience and self-perception. As in, your Reflector child may be less predictable than others. Their mood is often a reflection of the energy around them.

Moms of Reflectors, Keep This in Mind

The Reflector moms who I’ve worked with often express concern about their child being a Reflector — worried that their sensitivity and openness make them overly volunerable and regretful that they haven’t done more to protect or support them.

But remember, the soul / higher self of your little one chose the Reflector Energy Type because it aligned with their life mission. They also chose you to be their parent. And reflectors are far stronger than they’re often given credit for. Their aura is even naturally protective.

A Reflector child is a wise soul tuned into the frequency of everything.

Reflector Abilities

They’re designed to be little shape shifters. Sometimes they’ll want to be in the middle of things and other times they’ll want to be on the sidelines; sometimes they’ll be chatty and other times they’ll be quiet; sometimes they’ll be filled with energy and other times they’ll need more rest.

They can also cut through adult facades, spot a lie in an instant, and mirror another’s energy back to them.

So, if you notice yourself asking your child “Why are you so amped up today?” it’s an invitation to check in with your nervous system to see if they’re mirroring your dysregulation.

The Core Challenge for a Reflector Child

They notice they’re different.

And without parental support, it can feel lonely, leading them to homogenize with their peers and blend into the background.

But they’re designed to be adaptable, not invisible. And they flourish when they feel accepted and respected by their family, peers, and larger community.

Celebrate their differences and help them honour their empathic ability as a superpower.

Nurturing Your Reflector Child

Your little Reflector is designed to live a full, expansive life of magic and possibility.

But because Reflectors are only 1% of the population, they’re often unknowingly conditioned to act like the other 99% — meaning they miss out on expressing their natural abilities and gifts and embodying their higher potential.

The fact that you’re here, reading this article, and learning that your child is designed to be uniquely parented is a huge step towards a new paradigm of motherhood.

And really, the most loving gift you can give your Reflector child is parenting with the awareness of their fluidity and giving them the freedom to be who they are in each moment.

In my on-demand Human Design for Moms course: The Motherhood Uprise, I explain your Reflector child in depth, diving deeply into their auric field, core challenges and gifts, and offer practical tips and guidance on how best to communicate and parent them so they feel seen and heard, and can shine in their fullness.